Taken from Real Feedback

A few months ago, I observed a collection of women who were openly talking about marriage, parenting, and other related topics. Since I was in the middle of writing a cohort series on parenting, this seemed like a golden opportunity to ask them what they wish more husbands would know about parenting. The list below represents their unfiltered answers -

• Be intentional about the time that you have with your kids.
• Have a plan, don’t be passive, be opportunistic.
• Be present when you are with your kids.
• Don’t bring your work or distractions into your parenting time.
• Get on the same page with your wife about your parenting values, philosophies, and discipline.
• Remember you only have a certain number of recitals, games, etc. Make them count.
• Focus on forming the heart and character of the kids, not just conforming them to your rules.
• Give them freedom to talk about difficult subjects, even when they are disagreeing with you or make you feel uncomfortable.
• Go for walks and drives… shoulder to shoulder conversations are more influential than face to face lectures.
• Be consistent in your discipline. Don’t allow disrespect or disobedience in some situations and then be very strict in others.

Women are looking for men to step up, not step aside when it comes to parenting. Let’s keep our hands on the steering wheel and lead the way when it comes to setting the temperature for our families.

What steps do you need to take to improve your parenting skills? Consider enrolling in our Dad Coaching or Good News for Your Family Coaching series to level up your leadership as a husband and father today!